Let’s become the adult we’ve always needed.
My name is RV Mendoza
I help people become the adult they’ve always needed through acts of vulnerability and self awareness.
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I’ve been watching way too much Grey’s Anatomy. It’s almost painful.
What does your emotional fortress look like? I can tell you by helping you understand your attachment style.
Just when you got a handle on one thing, there's always something new to wrestle with.
You're trying to engage your conference attendees and incite FOMO that drives ticket sales.
How do we do it with with Instagram TV? Here are five ways to use it for your Conference.
I'm so excited....I'm so excited...I'm so....SCARED.
The Valley of Depletion: A phenomenon where you’ve initially neglected your needs so much that you're too far gone into emotional and/or physical exhaustion, that you can no longer hear your instincts of self care.
How much money did it cost for me to come out as a queer gay man?
Is it MoGo or is it more like NoGo? I do hella math so you don't have to. Y'all don't deserve me, tbh.
Does it cost more to be poor? Yes. But it's not just a matter of money, it's a matter of time, skill and access.
STOP LACROIX SHAMING ME.
Also–it’s pronounced “la-croy” get over it.
Don't have access to your smartphone? Maybe you're just a badass OG and still on that feature-phone tip. Don't worry, it turns out you can still hail a ride.
Know what you bring to the table, so you can stop becoming bitter, and start becoming better.
Uber drivers are working hard for their five stars nowadays. Before we know it, Uber could become the new Grindr.
Sometimes I’m just petty af.
Grab some popcorn. It's story time.
Student loans are THA DEBIL. Here are the 6 things I wish I knew before getting into student loan debt. Spoiler alert: don’t.
Don't make huge financial decisions based on lazy clichés.
Recommendations on tools I use to keep and track my money that don't stress me tf out.
I started playing Sudoku, and it felt like walking straight into a room I’d avoided my whole life. I never liked puzzles. Word searches made me twitchy. Jigsaws bored me and then irritated me. I had zero patience for any of it.